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I have a situation with best friend and my brother. Well the story is my friend is 15 and my brother is 18, my friend is kind of easy with the guys but she knows when to stop but a couple of times she would come over and leave to see my brother and they would hook up (kiss) and i don't like it at all i mean how could my best friend do that to me and my brother knows she is my best friend too.! they done this about twice that i know of also my friend said to me "no matter what happens between me and your brothers we are still going to be best friends" and i was like ok we will and i said "why?" she said that when you were away your brother took me to the moves she said nothing happened but i don't know i cant really trust her? what should i do?? i don't want to lose my best friend and i talk about this to her but she keeps doing stuff like this! I told her already that we can hang over my house all the time so now we don't even really hang out at all any more can you please help me.
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I feel it is none of your business of whom your friend chooses to see, and for that matter who your brother chooses to see. It is not for us to judge the actions of others, and quite frankly to dictate who they can see and not see. You have said how you feel, and at this point I would let the matter resolves itself without any further interference on your part. I feel these situations are just toxic and energy wasters for all concerned. Put your energy to more worthwhile pursuits, and stop allowing your energy to be spent on situations like this one.
Paul Mauchline
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