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Art of Loving Advice If I ever marry , I desire this woman to also be a Virgin , but as time passes , this becomes increasingly less likely. So , if you dont mind me asking , should I simpley resighn myself to a fate without romance , which I have almost done anyway , or should I look for that ideal? After all , in todays world , girls start so very young , and often do this deed with a man theyve only been out with a couple of times. I hold the act in much more esteem , and , unlike the steriotypical male , want my first experience to be meaningful. The act looses something after one has done it so lightly , and after two or three partners , it simpley isnt the same. It becomes easier for the girl to submit , they do so more readily and with fewer expectations. I dont want to be te guy between larry and joe , but an actual meaning. I want , in truth , for the experience to be mutual. In order for this , I must both be first , and first choice. In addition , this action should be taken with great care and concern, and not simpley done. I want it to be done properly , with respect and care , with a meaning that we can both experience and share. In reality , I only want one sexual partner in my life , and only one. In todays world , one has sex , and eventually falls in love with one of the various sexual partners , or at least thats the theory , though I have seen far too much pain from loose sexuality , it has done more harm than good to let go of our morals. So , in closeing , I ask , should I simpley give up on finding such a girl , or is there any hope at all? (I will not surrender my ideals , and take a womzan who was done these things. So dont mention that. It wouldnt make me truely happy and would be unfair both to me and the woman.) Please reply , and thank you for reading my message , I await your reply. |
 If this is your desire to marry a woman who has her virginity, then stick to it. There are many women who possess this conviction, and will not engage in sexual intimacy until they are married. My advice to you, especially at the young age of 24 is to hold out for what you desire in a lover, partner, and best friend for life |
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