Art of Loving Advice
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I am a woman and about 2 years ago I met a couple and became good friends with both the man and the woman. I stayed in their house and they helped me in many ways. Eventually we all had sex, her and I, he and I, all three of us at once.
The trouble is that their relationship was not in good standing before or during this entire time. (About 1 year) They had problems and were not happily married. So the man moved out of the house and I have since continued to see him. I love his company as a friend and lover, but every time we make love, I end up feeling guilty. Like I am the reason that they broke up. The wife and the husband have both acknowledged that there were problems before they met me and both of them have expressed that they DO NOT hold me responsible for their breakup.
Are my feelings of guilt justified?
Signed Girl.......Guilty
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Stop feeling guilty... You make your choices, as they made their choices to end their relationship. If the guilty feelings continue, maybe this is a sign to move on and find a loving relationship that is less complicated. Get on with your life Guilty Girl.
Paul Mauchline,
The Art of Loving Institute
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