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I am currently in a relationship that has lasted (non-stop) for a year and a half. I love her a lot, and I am positive she loves me. We fight quite often, however, never over anything serious, always petty. These fights are always resolved by the end of the day. I feel that it is due to me that these dilemmas exist. I am very jealous. The problem is, I dont know why. She treats me like a king, and I am POSITIVE she would never cheat. The only explanation I can think of, is that my ex-girlfriend, dumped me because she liked my best-friend. He never loved her, and she knew this, that is why she settled for second-best. Eventually, she got tired of second best. I was NEVER jealous and treated her like a princess. Why cant i show the same affection towards the real love of my life? Any advice whatsoever on how I can improve my state-of-mind, and destroy my jealousy would be grateful.......Thanks.
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Get Over It!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Stop!!!!!!!!!!! Dwelling with these past hurts from your prior relationship. This is going to destroy your current relationship. There is no room for fear in your life --only love. It is over ------ finished!!! These feelings are robbing you of personal happiness, and are robbing your current girlfriend of your love. So stop being a martyr about the past, and start enjoying today with this lady that treats you like a King. Be grateful for what you have each day.
Paul Mauchline,
The Art of Loving Institute
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