Art of Loving Advice

Question:
When is the right time in a relationship to say "I love you?" I don't want to overstep my bounds and scare my boyfriend of four months, but I do want him to know how I feel. I've only been in love twice before, and I know for sure that these feelings are real. Should I hold back a few more months, or do I express what's in my heart?
The last thing I would want is to overwhelm him and lose him if he didn't feel the same way. I don't expect him to say it back, I just want him to know my feelings for him.
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There is no set time as to express your feelings for a loved one. I always go with my heart. If you spook him, it is his loss. You should never be afraid to express your feelings. There is no room for fear in one's life or a loving relationship.
Paul Mauchline,
The Art of Loving Institute
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