Art of Loving Advice
Question:
I finally met a guy that I truly like and so far I think he's everything I
could want in a person. I don't understand why I bring up his past
relationship. I constantly compare myself to his ex-girlfriend. He was
engaged to her, but she cheated on him. He went back to her and she did it
again. What guy does that? Is he desperate?
He's asked me to be his girlfriend after 5 days of knowing him, and he says
how much he likes me. I'm not sure if this is common for him or if I'm
denying something that is truly magical. I've been in Love before but wow
this is happening so fast. I don't want to complain and scare him away or
talk about his ex all the time. He even asked me not to. He said, his brain
has two cylinders and mine has nine. I feel I ask questions about his ex
because I think he just wants to get married and he might do this with
everybody. I don't fall in love easily and won't marry just anybody. I
don't know why I'm acting like this. He's one of the best things that has
happened to me. Any good advice?
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You are in a new relationship --- give it some time. His ex is history -- get over it!!! Enjoy each other, have fun, communicate your feelings with one another.
You will find an abundance of information on my web site www.artofloving.com along with some helpful book suggestions for you to read.
Go with your heart.
Paul Mauchline,
The Art of Loving Institute
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