Art of Loving Advice
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I have a situation...i'm not very good with communicating to my partner. He 17 and i'm 22...hes old fashioned on his values, background, etc. For me I'm socialable, wild and outgoing and he hates my past relationships and flings. Hes a virgo and I'm a leo. Hes very sensitive even over little things. He doesn't trust me bec. of my past but I've learned from mistakes and he can't see that! I need to know how I can communicate well with him. We fight alot with screaming and angry words. I don't understand him sometimes and vice versa. I need help on how to work things out with him and how we can talk about things easily without taking it the wrong way. How can I get my feelings out without saying it wrong?
I need help fast and soon. Can you please give me some advice and what I need to do to make things right?
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Your boyfriend has no right to judge you based on past choices you have made in your life. You are both young, and need to have fun and enjoy one another. If he will not communicate to you like an adult, maybe you need to find a new boyfriend that will. Life is to short for this nonsense. Tell him to get over it -- or exit from your life.
I would encourage you to take some quality time to read many of the articles on my web site www.artofloving.com that will help you
Paul Mauchline,
The Art of Loving Institute
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