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I know a girl who was very interested in me. We have been out a couple of times and had a great time. She started a new job a couple of weeks ago. I went on a vacation for a week. She told me to call her as soon as I got back from my trip. I did, that was a week ago? She never got back to me? I haven't called her back since. I am kind of upset because every time I try to reach her I can't? She is a very busy woman. But she told me things like how wonderful a person I am and that she thought it was destiny for us to meet like we did. We met at work but she has since left the company. I just don't understand it? I find it incredibly frustrating? I am giving her a lot of space and time to get back to me and she doesn't? I feel it is very one sided because she never calls me? I don't feel reciprocated. What should I do?
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Maybe she is not interested in you anymore. If she is not responding --- it is time to move on. There are many lovely single women in the world today for you to choose from.
If you are determined for one more kick at the can so to speak -- I would suggest sending her some flowers and a note. If she does not respond -- write her off. I would not waste any more energy on her.
Paul Mauchline,
The Art of Loving Institute
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