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I am in need of help my girlfriend and me broke up a week ago because our relationship wasn't working out we didn't talk at all partly because I was afraid to talk I was afraid I was going to say something really stupid and she then was going to think I am really dumb well this is the problem I really like this girl alot she means the world to me and is such huge part of my life we broke up because of silly old rumors and we both still like each but see I never really knew this girl while we were goin out can you please give me some advice on how I can go and get to know her better so I can talk to her better and maybe we can make this relationship happen after all.
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Start communicating your feelings honestly to your girlfriend -- get over your fear now!!! You will not have a successful loving relationship unless you can communicate your feelings honestly to the other person -- this goes for them also. The true key to one's soul is by revealing your vulnerabilities -- expressing them in words to the ones you love. Stop!!! Thinking you are going to say something stupid -- and worrying about old rumors. No one should judge you -- especially yourself. Just do your best; and start communicating with this girl, if you want her back in your life.
Get over your fears Luke -- the force (Love) is with you.
Paul Mauchline,
The Art of Loving Institute
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