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Question:
Hi my name is "A" and i have been married for three years now and we have
three children,all under 6 years.i am writing for advice on something that
has been a real problem for our whole relationship .about 6 years ago we
began to put thought into being with another woman and since then i havent
felt the same.he is a very sexual person and since the kids i have definatly
lost some of my drive.he gets mad when im not in the mood for a (fantasy)and
i feel awful the next day.i give him oral almost every night no matter
what.whether im not felling good or i am tired.i feel like its turning into a
job to releive him.and i definatly feel the passion is gone.we fight all the
time about the threesome thing and at times i beg him to just forget it
because its ripping us apart there are so many questions i want to ask
-A
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Hi A,
You have some serious problems here in your relationship with your husband. These issues are to big to advise
over this medium. It would take me a day to compose the right response, and honestly this is not the purpose of
my web site. I provide information for people, and share my knowledge and wisdom through the content of my
site.
Sounds like your hubby has got some serious sexual problems, for which he should get counseling for, if your
relationship is to last with him. You need to have a very serious talk with him and express how you are feeling. I
would recommend you seek help also, and eventually seek counseling together as a couple. These are very
serious problems not only for the two of you, but greatly affect your children as well. So get to it and get some help.
Intimacy with your lover, should not be a job. This whole situation in my opinion is truly damaging and toxic to all
involved.
Good Luck
Wishing you an epic and loving day.
Paul Mauchline
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