Art of Loving Advice
Question:
My name is A, I meet this girl K at a new year's party , she was there
with some guy but i started talking to her and after a few hours she ended
up sleeping at my place! we had sex. She gave me her mobile phone number.
after that we went on a date twice i finshed the first date and did not
kiss her, tough i drove her back home, in the mean time she gave me her
phone nomber and keept sending me electronic greetingcards with kisses and
mising u and stuff, but when we were togather she showed the interest in me
one second and the other second she acted like we were just friends,on the
second date we kind of realy had fun i allso gave her some candies and she
accted like she was realy happy, i kissed her when wllking her to her car.
she asked me to send her mail when she was leaving, i told her i laready did
that just when i was leaving for the date so she sayed she vill send me
mail, and she did the next day ...what she is doing and general and ended
with kiss K. after two days i send her e- mail back and she did not reply
and again after 2 day i send her an SMS ahe did not reply...
so today it is one month and eight days since we meet.
what should i do?
is she just playing with me so i get hot for her or is she giving me signs
that she does not like me or that she meet another guy or something?
thank you amd sorry for my spelling english is not my first language
-A
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Hi A,
Here is my response, short, sweet, blunt and to the point. It appears you have feelings for this young lady, and now
are getting some confusing messages from her. Get over any fears you might have and sit her down and look into
her eyes and tell her how you feel about her. It sounds to me like you would like to move forward in a loving
relationship with her. The only way you are going to know how she feels, and she how you feel is by
communicating to one another. Then you both will know how to proceed or not proceed with one another.
Sounds like a lot of game playing here and not enough honest communication going on between the two of you.
Sometimes we assume when we should not, and sometimes we have expectations and get disappointed. Talking
openly, honestly, without ego, prevents this from happening and what creates great loving relationships.
Good Luck
Paul Mauchline
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