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I am so afraid of kissing guys that its starting to be the only thing i can
think about. I have this guy i have been seeing for 3 weeks now and things
were going really well, i am confortable being close to him but he tried to
kiss me last weekend and i pulled away quickly. I don't know how to get over
this fear fro kissing, and i don't know what i will say to him next time he
tries to kiss me, and i have been trying to win this guy over for weeks now
i hope he doens't get the wrong idea and think i'm not interested which i
know is what he is thinking... i'm in serious confusion and i donn't know
how to get over this kissing fear i have, is it normal and everytime i start
kissing him i think' am i doing this right, i must look like an idiot, i
can't do this' etc and i pull away for no reason..
Need help desperatly
-L
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Hi L,
Get over your fear about kissing. You are driving yourself crazy about something so enjoyable, fun, and loving. So
start giving yourself some positive affirmations that you love kissing, and you want to be kissed by your boyfriend.
You may want to go and visit a friend of mine's site www.virtualkiss.com for pointers.
Tell your boyfriend about your fears. Being honest with him will relax you, so you can enjoy the moment. Telling
yourself you are an idiot is wrong and is just going to escalate not only kissing, but other areas of your life. Be
positive, and get over the fear. We have two choices in life, Love or Fear, which do you choose for your life. Put
out all these negative thoughts and enjoy those kissing moments.
Wishing you an epic and loving day.
Paul Mauchline
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