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I need some advice. I separated from my husband almost a year ago (official divorce is in a month). An
unbelievable guy has entered my life and for the last 6 months, I have pushed him away. I have big hang-ups about
my failed marriage, and cannot seem to accept the fact that he can love me despite what has happened in my
life. As a result, I continue to try and sabotage the relationship, and make grand announcements to people in my
life that it is over, when in fact it's not. I love him. I know this. But how do I stop second-guessing my own
judgement that I am in fact in love (I wound up marrying someone I didn't love the first time), and how do I begin to
put my faith and trust in him? How do I get out of the mind set that running away is the best method?
-K
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Hi K,
You and millions of people go through this each day in the world. Rest assured you are not alone. Take some time
to educate yourself about love. My web site http://www.artofloving.com provides you with a wide range of articles
that will help you. Go to the book links section, and read some of the books I recommend. Pick up and read a
Return To Love, and The Four Agreements. These are great books of wisdom that will help you.
K get over your fears.. The past relationship is over, and move on with your life. Concentrate on the positive and
get rid of all this negative crap you have going on inside of you. Communicate to your unbelievable guy what you
are feeling. Focus on love, and not fear, and you will have heaven on earth. Life is all about choices.
Good Luck... Get to It Girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wishing you an epic and loving day from The Turks & Caicos Islands.
Paul Mauchline
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